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After having a baby, up to 80 per cent of women may develop the ‘baby blues’. This feeling passes in a day or two and is different to postnatal depression (PND). PND is a depression that comes on within 12 months of having a baby, usually during the first few weeks or months. It can range in severity from very mild and transient, to severe and lingering. For most women, it passes quickly; for others, professional help is needed. Postnatal depression is most common after the first pregnancy.
This study measured antenatal risk factors for postnatal depression in the Australian population, both singly and in combination. Risk factor data were gathered antenatally and depressive symptoms measured via the beyondblue National Postnatal Depression Program, a large prospective cohort study into perinatal mental health, conducted in all six states of Australia, and in the Australian Capital Territory, between 2002 and 2005.
You do realise that you are providing uncertified guidance to people who are in need of much more professional help. This is both potentially harmful and prohibitive.
Also having read through your earlier blogs and the information on your old blog, it seems you drift from one ‘hot’ topic to another. You clearly cashed-in on the death of your former boyfriend and I can only hope that you have not caused a dramatic effect on his family by so publicly airing your dirty laundry of his death.
You talked about him being your soul mate and yet you clearly moved on from your ‘grief’ very quickly. One can only hope that you had the decency to make a clean break between the two and haven’t dragged his family along, watching you move onto someone new.
Sarah
Dear Sarah,
Thank you for taking the time to comment on professional and personal life via the information on my website and blog. I am always happy to receive feedback in order to grow and learn.
As regards the guidance I give, it is based on personal experience along with over seven years of attending relevant conferences, reading and learning even more about postnatal illness. The usual response from sufferers is the comment ‘thank you, you have made me realise that it’s not just me’. I give them that opportunity and if they need more that that I always refer them to the appropriate health professionals. Equally I am valued by the health professionals for giving them a greater insight into what it can feel like to suffer from postnatal depression from a personal viewpoint. This enables them to improve or at the very least, reassure them, that the care they give is what is required. I always use the description of ‘Expert by Experience’. People can choose to read it or choose for ‘certified’ information elsewhere.
Many blogs are based around ‘hot topics’. That is one of the many reasons that blogs have become so popular.
I have in no way ‘cashed-in’ on the death of Clive. The members of his family who were close to him and whom I knew, were aware of my blog. It has helped many, many people who have had to deal with their own losses in life. Bereavement is a unique process. My writing continues to help others. I am well aware that it may not be everyone’s approach and I am content with that. Not everyone agrees on everything!
There are many things that have not been included in my blog for a number of reasons. I could have chosen to hide the fact that I have met someone else – I have been open about it because it inspires others to find happiness again. People have been supportive in the fact that I now am in another relationship. Some people take many years before they are blessed to have found someone they enjoy spending time with again. Others do so again within weeks or months. The human heart has a huge capacity for love. Clive was one of those people. He often used to tease me about ‘when he was gone’ and that he would want me to be happy. ‘Moving on’ does not simply happen by clicking a switch. It is a gradual process that I have taken and continue to do so.
One of Clive’s messages used to be ‘what anyone else thinks of you is none of your business’. Of course you are perfectly entitled to your opinion.
If what I read or who I am does not meet with your approval that is fine. You have the choice not to read it.
Regards,
Elaine.